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吳景濱
【這愛,是幻想?是真實?-獨自一人也可以被愛】
【這愛,是幻想?是真實?-獨自一人也可以被愛】
【這愛,是幻想?是真實?-獨自一人也可以被愛】
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吳景濱
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Taipei City, Taiwan
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【這愛,是幻想?是真實?-獨自一人也可以被愛】 卸下頭上戴著的VR顯示器,癱軟在床上。 我還沉浸在那段時光,直到一個閃神… 「又回到現實了…真想和她再多待一會兒…」嘆了一口氣後,起身面對這一再重複地無趣、無聊的生活。 見到二通來自家裡的未接來電,還有未讀訊息… 「啃老族?哼,反正也不是第一次這樣講了,隨便吧…」我心想 憂鬱、煩悶、焦躁……開始湧上心頭…… -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 這是御宅漫常出現的情節,男主角失落於外在世界,感到現實生活沒有意義,而一頭栽進虛擬世界。在虛擬世界裡,滿足了主角的一切,關於自尊、愛情、親情與友情,在這裡彷彿才是主角真實的人生。 到底是外在現實是真實?還是虛擬世界才是真實?已經區分不開。 這一次,想藉由虛擬世界為引子,談談有關於「愛」這件事 前幾年有部奧斯卡得獎電影-雲端情人,它訴說一個寂寞上班族愛上AI(人工智慧)的一個故事。主角西奧多因著廣告購買了擬人作業系統O.S.One,將它取名為珊曼莎。她/它聰明、充滿好奇性,亦擁有人性,漸漸地西奧多愛上了她/它,甚至透過電愛來做愛,成為超脫世俗的精神伴侶。 這故事聽起來新奇,又感到不可思議。但這並無不可能,更甚,其實這樣的「愛」早已出現。目前市面上的虛擬女友養成遊戲即是一個例子,因她/它的微笑,及一句:「你今天還好嗎?」,就給了今天的自己充滿能量。或許你覺得這離你太遙遠,那點名你知道的一些知名手遊APP:旅蛙、不思議生物研究所、菇菇栽培…,雖然對象並不是人,但仍滿足了自身被瞭解的一部分,被看見了自己照顧他人的細心、耐心與智慧…等等。 說到「愛」這回事 有人說是一種激情;也有人說是一種奉獻。 其實,最基本的愛叫做「懂」,是一種被瞭解的愛。 在愛中,我們會在意對方到底在不在乎我、到底懂不懂我。我們會將自己被愛的需求投射到對方身上,試圖尋求接納、認同、包容,願對方能接受自己的一切任性、天馬行空的想法、情緒化…… 我們心中總有個白馬王子與白雪公主,並殷切期盼那個他/她出現在我的生活裏。 愛,或許在這個世代有了新的形式,它可以是與虛擬的人、寵物、蘑菇、外星生物……而它可將是你/妳獨自一人時重要的支持伴侶 你/妳單身嗎? 我們不自覺地被社會期待所束縛,而自認孤獨。 其實,一人個人也可以被愛、也可以過得很快樂。 文:吳景濱 諮商心理師 此篇文章刊載於臺灣科技大學諮商中心粉絲專頁:https://www.facebook.com/NTUSTgenderequality/posts/379758239183552
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