Death

July 5th, 2021

People have tremendous fear for DEATH, whether it is the cause, process, or even aftereffect.

How will I die? Would it be painful or peaceful?

What will be my death status? Would I be alone or surrounded?

Where will I go after my death? Would I be in hell or paradise?

All kinds of unknowns are frightening, and the fear is disturbing.

However, death gives the most fundamental meaning and value to life.

If there is no death, how can there be life?

If there is no end of time, how can there be motivation?

If there is no regret, how can there be appreciation?

The existence of "death" makes "life" and allows people to have the freedom to choose to live.

Happiness

June 13th, 2021

Should we pursue happiness?

Perhaps you've met people who are constantly chasing after happiness. Most of their choices can be traced back to seeking "a more peaceful and happy life". However, they might not notice that "happiness" is just a state, a fleeting moment. What's more, the exhausting fact is that it takes a lot of effort to gain instant happiness, while the power of control is often not in one's hands.

Before totally denying the necessity of "pursuing happiness", we ought to first explore different sources of "happiness".

I classify them as "primary happiness" and "secondary happiness." "Secondary happiness" refers to the unpredictable and fleeting happiness mentioned above, which often depends on the expectation, response, and feedback of a third party.

"Primary happiness" can be acquired with extreme ease because it does not come from others, but from oneself. There's no need to go after it desperately. It's not the end of the journey, it's the process. "Primary happiness" depends on one's attitude and belief. It doesn't need permission or commitment from others. If you think you deserve it, it is yours.

Stop rushing! Happiness doesn't need to be found. It’s been lingering nearby, waiting to be noticed and discovered.